Welcome to “Just for Kicks,” a blog dedicated to supporting and empowering youth as they embark on their journey from government care to independent adulthood. Written by a former foster kid turned advocate, who understand the unique challenges that young adults face when they age out of the child welfare system. Our mission is to be a guiding light in the darkness, offering valuable insights, resources, and encouragement to those navigating the path towards self-sufficiency.

Embarking on the Transition: The Hurdles Ahead

As youth leave government care, they are often met with a multitude of obstacles that can feel insurmountable. One of the most significant challenges is securing stable housing. Without a reliable support system or adequate financial resources, many find themselves grappling with homelessness or living in precarious situations. This is just the beginning of a long list of hardships, as limited access to education and employment opportunities can hinder their pursuit of a sustainable future and economic independence.

Mind and Heart: Nurturing Mental Health

Leaving government care with no transition support can leave young adults vulnerable to a higher risk of mental health challenges. The trauma experienced before and while in care, coupled with the stressors of transitioning into adulthood without ample support, can lead to feelings of anxiety, depression, and post-traumatic stress disorder. Our blog acknowledges the significance of mental health and provides insights into nurturing emotional well-being.

Resource:
The Family Center
University of Alberta

Forging New Connections: Building a Support Network

As the familiar ties of foster families or group homes fade away, many youth struggle with a sense of isolation and loneliness. Our blog emphasizes the importance of building social support networks to provide encouragement, understanding, and a sense of belonging during this transformative period.

The Financial Maze: Finding Stability

Finances pose another hurdle for those transitioning from government care. Lack of budgeting skills and limited financial resources make it challenging to meet basic necessities such as food, transportation, and healthcare. At “Just for Kicks,” we believe in fostering financial literacy to empower young adults in their journey towards independence.

Resource:
Budget Basics

Accessing Care: Navigating Health Services

As young adults exit government care, they may lose access to essential healthcare services provided by the child welfare system. Our blog aims to shed light on the importance of prioritizing physical and mental well-being and offers guidance on accessing necessary medical care and mental health support.

Resource:
HealthLink

Breaking Free: Escaping Exploitation

Unfortunately, the vulnerability of youth leaving government care can make them targets for exploitation and illegal activities. Our blog addresses this critical issue, providing insights on how to recognize and avoid potential dangers while building a life of integrity and empowerment.

Resource:
Samaritan’s Purse

Charting the Course: Navigating Complex Systems

Navigating the intricate web of government systems can be overwhelming for anyone, let alone young adults without proper guidance. We strive to equip our readers with the knowledge and resources needed to navigate complex systems like housing programs, educational institutions, and job placement services.

Resource:
Learn Alberta

Life Skills for Life’s Journey

The transition from government care often reveals a lack of essential life skills, such as cooking, budgeting, and personal hygiene. “Just for Kicks” is committed to helping young adults develop these vital abilities, enabling them to flourish independently and thrive in society.

An Oasis of Support: Post-Care Services

After exiting government care, many young adults find themselves without ongoing support tailored to their specific needs. Our blog seeks to fill this void by offering a sanctuary of resources, guidance, and a community of understanding individuals determined to help youth overcome the challenges they face.

In this journey of empowerment, “Just for Kicks” stands as a beacon of hope, shedding light on the path to independence for all those transitioning from government care. Together, we can create a nurturing and supportive environment where youth can grow, thrive, and forge their destinies with strength and determination.

Growing up in foster care is an experience that shapes us in unique ways, often leaving us feeling unprepared for the challenges of adult life. Over 40 years, I have successfully navigated various obstacles, and now it may be time to share the valuable tips and tricks I’ve acquired while living in the province of Alberta. Through this blog, I aim to empower kids in-care or from government care by providing practical advice in the following areas.

1. Embracing Independence: One of the major hurdles we face while transitioning into adulthood is learning to be self-reliant. I would like to share some experiences to show how I’ve overcome life challenges, such as managing finances, setting goals, finding accommodation, and applying for jobs. I will provide step-by-step guides and resources that can help others gain confidence in their ability to live independently.
2. Nurturing Mental Well-being: Growing up in foster care can lead to emotional scars that may linger into adulthood. In this section, I want to discuss strategies for maintaining mental well-being, including therapy options, mindfulness exercises, self-care routines, and building support networks. I also want to encourage open conversations about the impact of past experiences while emphasizing the importance of seeking professional help when needed.
3. Building Healthy Relationships: Many individuals who grew up in care struggle with developing healthy relationships due to trust issues or attachment difficulties. I have some insights into forming meaningful connections with friends, partners, and mentors using effective communication techniques, setting boundaries, resolving conflicts, and nurturing supportive friendships.
4. Pursuing Education and Career Goals: Education is often disrupted during our time in foster care; hence, it’s crucial to develop strategies that allow young people to pursue educational opportunities at any age. Let’s talk about scholarships specifically designed for those who have experienced foster care or information on vocational training programs that can lead to stable careers.
5. Overcoming Setbacks: Life is full of setbacks, and it’s important to remind yourself that you are not alone in facing challenges. Many former youth in-care have struggled with overcoming obstacles such as unemployment, financial crises, or health issues. In this section, Let’s learn how to bounce back from adversity, seek assistance when necessary, and maintain resilience throughout tough times.
6. Mastering Practical Life Skills: As we venture into adulthood, it’s crucial to equip ourselves with practical life skills that foster self-sufficiency. I’ll strive to provide easy-to-follow tips like recipes, or budgeting strategies, or step-by-step guides for handling common household repairs, empowering young adults to maintain their living spaces confidently.

By offering guidance on various aspects of adulthood such as independence, mental well-being, relationships, education, career goals, resilience in the face of setbacks, and practical life skills this blog aims to inspire and support others on their journey towards successful adulting. Remember, together we can overcome any barriers that life and government care may have thrown our way!